The Change Fundas

Over an Year No posts, oh my Dear What Happened Blog has become Abandoned  After a very long time I sat Online Staring at the wall looking for a start Line What is it with this new Job I seemed to have been Robbed Where is the time, I just dont Know When I look at the river flowing fast, I just see the end of the Canoe  The change has Come Nothing seems to get Done Let this post turn the Leaf I will now need to leave back some old Beliefs

I travel a lot, for work. I have met a very large number of Interesting people during my journeys. On 2nd September 2007, I took a flight to Delhi. 3rd Septmeber was the day of my joining. My fourth Job. It was uncommon that I would have an attractive girl sit beside me and more uncommon that we do not talk. So, with me on the window seat and the middle seat empty, and after half the journey was over, I spoke. And then She. We talked till we landed and she passed me her Business Card while we collected our luggage. All through the months that passed, we would chat just about everyday. The patterns were changing.... It took us over an year to realise  One fine day, the day posted as Suddenly Something,  I tried to introduce a new blend to the existing pattern in my life. The disturbance got accepted :) I will move to the next level on 22nd August 2009. Its awaited now. PS: The picture is Stolen from the Net. All due respect to its producers

( Smiles) It happens with me often, that i go into the spiral of thoughts. Today's Trigger : The National Anthem (that plays before Any Movie in the theater; i think it happens all over maharshtra ) I am usually looked upon as a NON-Patriot! What a shame! Are you not proud of your Great country; motherland.. etc. Well i wont even go in the direction that Points to How Great is " Eendia " coz of the polly -ticks and all that Jing Bang. AS always i'll go in a different tangent..... We love to divide ourselves in groups. Dont we? Right from our Skool dez : Class; section; (red/yellow) house; his team ; her team; right upto : compaineez ; uniforms; cadres.. and so on. And we dont jut stop there. No! I am not talking about housing societies and religions, it goes upto countries ; walls; armies and everything. (someone said patriotic.. ok .. read on) Why do we group up as human beings? And make teams. -----------------------------One of the Questions! Are we afraid?...

Its been like static. The need to define. What I want in my life partner. I think now, everyone i know and don't know has already questioned me about the woman of my life. I have some very interesting set of friends with different views. So many girls/women i know have their own versions of who women are and what they should be. Without going towards the works of Desmond Morris , I have my own opinion. Some may find this opinion sexist, but fact remains that a woman is not a man. Having said that, I will not go into much detail of what is manly work or womanly work. Lets not try and get into the nitty-gritty. Right from cleaning houses, cooking etc to riding a bike, or driving a train or a plane or even building huge empires (read companies in today's context). Both men and women can do all that. Though not all MEN and all WOMEN can do all. So many women i know just cannot maintain houses or cook or do all those "things" which are type-casted as their role. THIS is wh...

"Social reality evolved between two to four million years ago, when a species of 'Southern Ape' ( Australopithecus afarensis) began to walk on two legs. At that time, the early hominids developed complex brains, tool-making skills and language, while the helplessness of their prematurely born infants led to the formation of the supportive families and communities that became the foundation of human SOCIAL LIFE" pg 3, the hidden connections by Fritjof Capra It is worth noticing that humans are among the very rare species whose children spend the longest time ever to become independent! They need a support system. Family! Society! the supposed inflection point / change referred above billions of years ago is causing those billions of people i am in contact with whose names start from A to Z and any other letter known to tell me that I SHOULD GET MARRIED!! Can you beat that? Beat that here is beat the inflection that happened THEN!

Just saw the The Shawshank Redemption, (137 Min) !! The last scene where Tim Robbins , is washing his boat and meets Morgan remided me again of the Paradigm shift That i think is happening. I remembered(Also), about one of my uncles who is currently staying in Haridwar , after:~ A good career in US, ~returning to India,~ Having gone through a not so successfule Marriage, ~A divorce and Now.. Yes Now.. ( as I percieve him to be a happy MAN) is having his own apartment by the Ganga, His own car, a Plasma TV, A laptop, a sexy PDA-Cell Phone, His Car and Not to Unmention his good (girl)Friends [:P] and HEY... lemme tell you , I haven seen him work in the last 15 years...!! I Again recalled talking to some of my friends earlier last week, About How the society has been Morphing in a very fast way and the institution Called Marriage!! seems to have lagged behind.. way behind !! It has not evolved, the Humans around and changed like Blitzkrieg!! ( just recalled the Paradi...